Family

Original Air Date: November 7, 2000

Written by Joss Whedon
Directed by Joss Whedon

Summary

Willow and Tara are in their dorm room and once again Tara mentions that she doesn't feel like a useful part of the group but Willow tries telling her that she's essential to them. Meanwhile Giles is at Buffy's house and she's just told him about Dawn being the key. Buffy isn't going to tell Dawn or anyone else about what Dawn is. Giles thinks Glory (the woman in red) will try to take Dawn away and Buffy wants to protect Dawn. Meanwhile, Glory gets up from the debris of the crashed down building and she's quite upset.

The next day the gang is packing up Buffy's dorm because she has decided to move back home while her mom is sick. Tara cracks a joke but everyone just stares at her oddly, not getting the joke. While Tara's out of the room Willow reminds the gang about Tara's birthday party tomorrow night which all of them had forgotten about until Willow mentioned it. Meanwhile at the hospital, the 5th crazy person is brought into this hospital this very month. Ben, an intern, is about to get attacked by a hideous demon with an extremely large tongue when Glory appears and grabs the demon telling him that she needs his help. At Giles' shop later on, Anya's really excited about her new job. Buffy and Xander walk in and start research on the woman but all they can talk about is how little they know Tara and they have no idea wha to get her for her birthday. Meanwhile Spike is making love to Harmony while he's dreaming of fighting Buffy. Back at Giles' shop a man walks in and start rifling through Giles' personal magic books. Tara and Willow then walk in and the man greets Tara as his sister. Tara doesn't look to happy to see her brother Donny. Suddenly her father as well as her cousin Beth walk in. They're here for her birthday and want to take Tara out to supper to do some catching up. Tara's a little put off by her family's arrival in town.

Buffy returns home where Riley has put all her stuff back in her room. Buffy then refuses Dawn permission to go to her friend's house for supper because she says its too dangerous. Buffy says that they all have to be very careful but Riley thinks there's more to it than that. He leaves her house, mad that she won't tell him what's going on. Tara returns to her dorm to find her father inside snooping around. He's not happy that she's kept up with her witchcraft. He tells her that she's turning twenty soon and she'll have to come back home because the evil inside her will appear shortly. They need to be gone by morning so that no one gets hurt. Meanwhile Glory has taken the ugly demon to her place and she finds out from him that she was fighting a vampire slayer. She tells him to get his friends together and kill the Slayer for her.

Later at Giles' shop they're having a Scooby meeting with everyone except Tara who said she didn't want to go. Unbeknowst to them, Tara is hiding behind a door in the shop. She casts a spell on them and then leaves. The spell affects the gang but they don't notice it. Harmony returns to Spike's crypt after a shopping spree and tells him that she heard a bit of gossip about a group of demons gathering to kill the Slayer. Spike, excited, goes out to find them. Tara goes out for a walk and runs in to her cousin Beth. Beth figures out that Tara cast a spell on her friends so that they wouldn't see the demon part of her.

Back at Giles' shop, a group of demons appear at the door but Willow can't see them because of Tara's spell. The demons enter the shop and head to the back room where Buffy is training. Suddenly the gang is attacked by things they can't see. Buffy's trying to fight not doing so well so Spike jumps in to help her. Tara appears, realizes her mistake and lifts her spell from the group. Tara's family appears just as Buffy kills the last Layarch demon. Tara apologizes to them but she didn't want her friends to see her demon side. Willow can't believe that Tara didn't tell her about her family or her demon side. Tara's father says she's to come back with them so that they can control her. Willow asks Tara if she wants to leave and Tara really doesn't want to go back home. Buffy then tells Tara's father that they're a family and that if they want to take Tara away against her will then they're gonna have to go through Buffy first. Anya then asks what kind of demon Tara is but her family doesn't even know. Spike then decides to figure it out for all of them: he punches Tara in the nose, causing him intense pain and proving that Tara isn't a demon. Apparently its only a family legend that the women become demons on their twentieth birthday. Her family leaves and Tara is elated to find out she isn't a demon.

That night everyone is having fun at the Bronze for Tara's birthday party. A slow song comes on and Willow asks Tara to dance. While dancing Willow tells Tara that she's proud of her for turning out to be such a wonderful person despite the problems she's had with her family. They continue to dance peacefully, floating above the floor of the Bronze.

Summary written by Nika

Quote of the Week

Giles: (about Tara's birthday present, directed to Buffy and Xander) You're in a magic shop and you can't figure out what Tara would like? I believe you're both profoundly stupid.

My Rating

2/5

Nika's Review

I am not a fan of this episode. It was too much of a let down for it. All I can think right now is that we've been waiting one year to find out Tara's big secret, and well, yay for her that she isn't a demon, but it kind of *killed* the suspense that's been building for a nice long while now. It reminds me of that whole thing with Mayor Wilkins just being blown up with dynamite. The storyline was just beaten in this episode and that was really sad because I was expecting something a little more spectacular. On the DEFINITE plus side though: Tara now has a one-tone hair colour and it looks ever so much better than that weird stuff she had going on before. What I don't even get is how all of a sudden Buffy's all for saving Tara. I can kind of understand it because I think I'd do it too but it just felt weird and it seemed like she was trying TOO hard to make Tara feel comfortable with them. Spike was funny in this episode though, when he went over and punched Tara... That was great...

Niki Bartl's Review

I didn't really like this episode. I think it was sort of an attempt to bring Tara into the fold and yay! for her, but it just didn't seem to flow nicely. First of all, I realize that Tara is shy and no offence to all stutterers out there, but it is driving me nuts! And her dad! Errr! And Buffy and Xander don't know her or really are her friends and then all of a sudden they're her "family"? And HOW does no one not notice two girls flying in the middle of the Bronze. And Buffy is still 20....so if the legal drinking age in America is 21... then Buffy and Xander are underage... just a train of thought... Anyways, the whole build-up to this episode seemed really cool. I mean, it was all shrouded in mystery and we had to wait almost and entire year to find out what was really up with Tara, and I got all excited when I saw that Joss had written and directed it, I figured it was in for a real treat, but was extremely disappointed by the way the plot just fizzled out. I mean, yes, you can use the whole theory of the demon lie to get the wife to stay home as a metaphor, but it was lame! What did happen to Tara's mum, we know she had the "demon", did her husband kill her? The only saving grace part of this episode was Spike's meager lines in the "family" scene....

Cast

Sarah Michelle Gellar
Nicholas Brendon
Alyson Hannigan
Marc Blucas
Emma Caulfield
Michelle Trachtenberg
James Marsters
Anthony Stewart Head
Mercedes McNab
Clare Kramer
Charlie Weber
Amy Adams
Steve Rankin
Amber Benson
Ezra Buzzington
Peggy Goss
Teddy Pendergrass
Megan Gray
Brian Tee
Kevin Rankin
  Buffy Summers
Xander Harris
Willow Rosenberg
Riley Finn
Anya
Dawn
Spike
Rupert Giles
Harmony
Glory
Ben
Beth
Mr. Maclay
Tara
Bartender
Crazy Person
Demon
Sandy
Intern
Donny